If you have sex with one of these men, you will rack up as just another point tallied in their own personal game.
Ultimately, these men will objectify your virginity just as clearly as other men shrink from it.
At first it might sound like these are the perfect guys to lose your virginity to when you’re in your 20s or 30s, but before you seek out a serial “de-virginator,” please keep in mind a word of caution…
Men who are looking to have sex with older virgins are more concerned with collecting trophies than actually having sex with you.
I understand his need to check on things and make sure all is going well. Why can’t he converse while his phone sits on the table?
We don’t get out much though and for him to sit through dinner staring at his phone and ignoring our time together, I think, is rude. Surely he can carry on a conversation without the risk of losing his whole crop. He doesn’t have to stare at it, just glance at it once in a while.
Whether that history is bare or bursting won’t make a whole lot of difference to a man who is, you know, actually a man and not trapped in adolescent concerns or games.
Yet older virgins also often worry if they don’t tell a man about their situation, then that man will freak out if she reacts in an unconventional manner to their coupling.You will absolutely encounter your share of men who simply don’t want to have sex with an older virgin.Most of the time these men won’t want to have sex with you because they worry you will grow “attached” or “clingy.” This fear represents lingering adolescent concerns more than an expression of any adult reality.I’d be curious about her personal dating history and her attitudes towards sex and relationships, and I’d be curious about what she’s looking for in her first time.Beyond that, whether a woman is a virgin or has had sex with multiple partners doesn’t make a whole lot of difference to me.